2 Corinthians 4:16 ESV
As we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.
Stop going into your situation looking for the things that are not there. Instead go into your situation looking for all the things that are. I know you're thinking well if they are there then I'll see them. Yet, how many times have you gone through your closet looking for a particular item, yet you've really gone in to not find it. You know, you go in saying you're looking for it, but you don't expect to find it, so you don't. Then you go back a week later and you're looking for something else, and find the exact thing you were looking for a week ago, in the same place you looked and was sure you had placed it earlier. That's because your expectation of finding it there did not exist. So you could place your hand on it, push past it and frantically look for it, when you were actually looking at it the whole time.
Go into your closet (i.e. life, job, marriage, ministry, home, place of business, etc.) with an expectation to see everything you've prayed and believed GOD for to have already manifested. The moment our GOD spoke it, it was a finished work. Shift your way of thinking. Change what it is you're looking for; you just might find the thing you've been looking for was there all along!